Straight people might think she should divorce you and get on with her heterosexual life. Straight spouses also question whether or not they ever really had anything in terms of a marriage. For your mental and physical health and the welfare of your wife and any children involved, go forward with integrity, honesty and informed consent on everyone's part. Gay people think that you should come out and divorce, otherwise you are keeping a foot in heterosexual privilege. Whether or not you stay together, I think that you and your wife are very brave individuals exploring how to proceed with your mixed marriage. Sign up for our free bi-monthly Dr. Obviously we've built a life together, and I don't want to leave her but I want to be gay too.
She survived and immigrated illegally to the United States.
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Many were only allowed to leave after providing names and addresses of other LGBT people. Create an account to gain access to more nzherald. Nabiyev was accused of being a spy, routinely harassed and beaten by police, and eventually was forced to flee to Germany. But we must talk about it. Sign up for our free bi-monthly newsletter updates:. Share on Twitter twitter. Earlier this spring, the newspaper Novaya Gazeta revealed a mass police crackdown on gay men in Chechnya, where more than individuals have reportedly been locked up in secret detention centers and tortured into giving up the names of other gay men.
Most people wrestling with shame hurt themselves. Share on Google Plus google-plus. Their wives know, and they make it work. That prompted more than people, including then women's rights minister Laurence Rossignol, to complain to the regulator. Yes it is totally possible and many couples do it.